If a plan doesn’t work on paper, it has little change of working in reality. The SMART planning technique can help make the plans we make for our futures effective and help us meet our dreams head on. Without SMART goals our plans can lack direction and focus. Here is how you can make your SMART plan? Specific - Your [...]
I thought I would share something of myself and insight, I am often so busy that I don’t get to reflect as much and look inwardly as I once did, so I find myself with a few hours. I write this as I fly to celebrate something which others may in fact dread, a 50th birthday, i’m excited, why? Well [...]
Happy Easter - Gives and Gets So we're all familiar with the Christian Easter story, our God 'gives' his son Jesus, he sacrifices his one and only and we 'get' eternal forgiveness for our alleged sins, but what does God get? It sounds like we get a disproportionately good deal, what a good egg our God is, right? Well in [...]
Change We change our socks and underwear regularly, there are good reasons for this, it helps us feel fresh and clean, and draws people to us, there's nothing more certain to drive people away from us than the smell of stale body odour. We sometimes change our clothing style or our hairstyles in an effort to freshen our image, it's [...]
My bride I left so hastily The unborn child I fathered The growing years, the endless tears My war cut short, whilst theirs endures The love they never knew, until now - remembered. Paul Parkin - Dedicated to those who gave their all
Attachment Whether you find it difficult to love your 'self', or find it difficult to open your heart to others, the reasons may be similar - 'attachment', online counselling will help you to change how you see yourself and how others perceive you. When John Bowl by did his research which eventually became 'Attachment Theory' he linked the early relationships [...]