Facilitated topic based discussion / support, for the Wive’s of Cross Dressing Men.
Are you married, or the partner of a man who likes to wear female clothing, sometimes referred to as cross dressing men?
Many women have contacted me stating ‘My husband wears my clothes’. You may find this behaviour off putting, confusing, distressing, or not understand what it means about your man, or what it means for your relationship.
I can explain everything to you, how to support your partner, how to question and how to understand what’s happening and more importantly why.
Most people find it very useful to speak to a professional who understands why men cross dress, I can help you with setting boundaries and answer all of your questions, so that your relationship and you feel more comfortable .
You, your feelings and needs are important too, and you may need to be supported, it can feel very isolating to be the partner of a man who is a cross dresser because of the isolation and the fear of other people knowing your private business.
If after speaking with me and feeling more equipped with the facts, you may benefit greatly from speaking with other wives, girlfriends and lovers, of men who cross dress.
You may be interested in my support group for women just like you.
Why I provide this service:
Since creating my online counselling website in 2007, I’ve had a steady stream of clients from every corner of the world, who have sought support with their partners, husbands or boyfriends’ cross dressing men and their behaviour.
At times these individuals have felt afraid and confused at finding out that they are in relationships with cross dressing men.
They often struggled to understand cross dressing, as there’s a lot of misinformation online. People often feel isolated and uncomfortable with an issue which can be distressing. This can have a huge impact on their relationships with themselves and with their loved ones.
Although these individuals come from different countries and continents, the issues they face in relation to the cross dressing issue, are similar, wherever they are from.
I decided to create this therapeutic, facilitated group support option, for wive’s of men who cross dress, at the request of several of my one-to-one clients, they feel they would benefit from having a safe, secure place, where they can speak with other women, without compromising their identity.
There are some general concerns for most women whose men are cross dressers, I aim to explore these topics within the safe confines of a secure chat platform, entry will only be enabled by myself, making it secure and safe. You can choose any name to sign in with and your identity will only be known to me.
If you’re interested, then maybe you too, would benefit from a facilitated, supportive environment to share and explore your concerns with other women who are going through similar challenges and emotions to you.
If you’d like further information about why men cross dress, you can read more here.
I’m Paul Parkin – A therapist and life coach. This is why you should work with me:
As an experienced facilitator specialising in crossdressing support and therapy since 2009, I’ve helped thousands of individuals and couples improve their lives and discover acceptance and a greater awareness.
My experience in counseling, life coaching, combined with a welcoming community, you may benefit from joining this support group, knowing you’re amongst like minded people and a facilitator who understands and has the skills and compassion to support you.
What some of my clients have said about the facilitated group.
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‘Women’s Group Magic
I was pretty nervous before the first Women’s group hosted by Paul.
As usual, I acted all cool beforehand, and had a bit of jitters as I checked in at the beginning of the call.
It was one of those times where I started pretty manner of fact, but along the way started to feel emotional.
I thought I had it all together! I thought….
So that is what I find especially exciting about this safe new environment to release words. Words can be like a balm to the soul.
Hearing other’s stories is downright empowering.
There was quite a lot of sharing of what is working. We all had our heartaches to report, but these paled in comparison to the words of love. Words of deep yearning to truly see another as themselves, unfettered by even your need to have them be who you think they are.
The deeper questions of how to truly love your partner quickly took over, and shifted the conversation.
How do we learn how to respect our own wishes, but allow infinite respect for our partner’s wishes themselves.
How to respect your partner and their choices as a demonstration of their sovereignty as a distinct and unique soul in the world.
As a community with shared experiences, I see this as direct evidence that it is just the community, the letting go of words and thoughts that may be challenging, letting go of your story, and hearing of others with similar stories which made them at times feel out of control of their own narrative.
At the end, I was a bit wound up, maybe because it was intense; but along with this, I was able to more clearly identify the source of this angst, in my own body.
In my own experience. This for me was super empowering, because through communing with others I felt a surge of love and peace, and I also felt not so scared anymore. It’s not you!
There is a lot of love in the air! We all want everyone to live as they most deeply wish! Your partner loves you deeply!
I look forward to the next meeting. I can see how this can become a source of real peace, real settling inside because there is power in community.
It is easier to flip guilt, shame, or grief into freedom, pride and joy when you feel literally uplifted by others who see and hear you.
Air is cleared and I feel more open to my mind being filled with ideas for the infinite possibilities life offers you.’
K. USA.
May 2024.
‘I attended the partners group with a sense of not knowing what I would say and also, it’s fair to say, feeling somewhat anxious. I can not explain the sense of release I felt following the group meeting after listening to the experiences of everyone.
Listening to the different perspectives and the journeys of people was so helpful and has given me new perspectives. Just having the opportunity to be with other people ‘like me’ and freely talk about my ways of coping with my husbands cross dressing has given me a sense of peace and I feel less lonely in my own journey.
Paul manages the group with kind sensitivity and is able to pick up on important themes and guide the conversations. I urge anyone considering whether they join a group session to give it a go.’
S. Australia.
May 2024.