Work related stress can make us ineffective, cause depression and affect our non-work relationships too. Does your job pay enough to ruin your life?

Suffering from Work Related Stress?

  • Hard to drag yourself out of bed to go to work?
  • Fantasies of throwing in the towel?
  • Getting angry at work?
  • Feeling you can’t do your job as well as you could?

Stress Factors

  • Poor relationships with other work colleagues or bullying
  • Long and/or irregular hours
  • Too little work or too much work
  • Repetitive work/boredom and lack of Job Satisfaction
  • Working alone
  • Job Insecurity
  • Job or organisational change
  • Low pay
  • Jobs with heavy emotional demands
  • Poor working environments such as excessive noise, the presence of dangerous materials, over-crowding, poor facilities, or extremities of temperature or humidity
  • Increased accessibility – the use of mobile phones, pagers and emails means the boss can always chase up work.

The situation can be made worse if there is bullying, conflict, harassment, and Indifference to staff needs. Where the organisation lacks leadership, work arrangements, deadlines and demands are set without consultation and seem to be inflexible, this leads to a high degree of uncertainty about direction, purpose, objective and job responsibilities amongst staff.

What are the symptoms of work related stress?

  • Difficulty getting to sleep or difficulty waking up in the morning
  • Constant Fatigue
  • Forgetfulness
  • Aches and Pains for no apparent reason
  • Poor Appetite
  • Social Withdrawal
  • Loss of interest in activities
  • Increased Anxiety and Irritability
  • Flying off the handle
  • Increased Heart Rate
  • Migraines
  • Headaches or  blurred Vision
  • Dizziness

Everyone has bad days but if you’ve noticed three or more of the above symptoms and you’ve experienced them for some weeks you may need to do something about your Stress Levels.

Visit your local GP to rule out other possible reasons for the symptoms such as Depression. If you think you may be suffering from Work-Related Stress or work place stress, it is worth visiting your GP for a check up.

Stressed out people have higher Blood Pressure, and where Stress Levels hit boiling point Sufferers are at a higher risk of Death from any cause than their more chilled out Colleagues. They are also prone to heart disease, Colitis (inflammation of the bowels), thyroid disorders, and ulcers.

How do I deal with work related stress?

Take time to exercise. Regular and frequent exercise is a good Stress Reducer.

Take time to exercise. Regular and frequent exercise is a good Stress Reducer.

If you are suffering from Work-Related Stress or work place stress try some of the following ways to calm down and chill out:

  • Try to make time for yourself away from work to wind down. For example relaxing in a warm bubble bath, listening to soothing music and shutting out the world for a while, try to find a sympathetic ear.
  • Take time for your mind and body to relax. Methods can include reading, exercise, meditation and yoga, as well as sharing your concerns.
  • Take time to exercise. Regular and frequent exercise is a good Stress Reducer.
  • Find time to pursue non-work activities such as Hobbies and recreational activities.
  • Eat well, skipping meals will deplete your energy and leave you drained.
  • Talk to your family and friends. Make time to see your mates, it will help you unwind after work and let you unburden any problems, talking is a great healer.
  • Learn to say no. If you are asked to take extra work on board, or to stay in the office after your colleagues have left, have the confidence to decline.
  • Take breaks at work. Don’t stay glued to the job – take a few minutes to sit back and Relax, or take a brisk walk during your break.
  • Plan your work. Sit down and establish what needs to be done. If you have an excessive Workload, delegate if possible, and decide on when your work needs to be completed.
  • If all else fails, have a serious Talk with your line manager about your workload, or think about changing your job.

Work Related Stress Counselling  – what is it?

A 2008 poll of 2,000 employees revealed that 46 per cent of respondents rated their jobs “Highly Stressful”. An estimated 40 million working days are lost each year due to stress related illnesses, costing industries £1.5bn a year.

Stress is the reaction people have to excessive demands or pressures. You may find it difficult to cope with tasks, responsibilities or other types of job related pressures or you might get Anxious trying to meet such demands. It isn’t just bad for your work, it could also be affecting your health.

Work related stress counselling is working with a counsellor who is experienced in the business sector, has worked with companies management and employees to create a healthier working environment. Working with a counsellor who understands the pressures of business and a personal life and creating a healthy work/life balance.

How can I get help?

Paul Parkin Online Counselling, Therapy and Life Coaching.

Paul Parkin Online Counselling, Therapy and Life Coaching.

If you would like help to manage your stress levels, talk to an experienced, qualified stress counsellor or life coach in complete confidence, you can even remain anonymous.Online counselling will allow you to share your worries and get some insight on how to make the changes needed to reduce your stress levels and improve your quality of life.

All this support without leaving your home or office.

Whatever your problem, I will help you, first by really listening to you and then using my many years of experience, with tried and tested strategies to help you relax and take control of your life.

I am an experienced, professional online counsellor, with over 15 years experience working as a counsellor and life coach offering confidential, affordable counselling online to clients anywhere in the world.

By living a simple life and working from home I have reduced my costs enabling me to reduce the session fees for clients, making counselling online more accessible to people seeking counselling online.

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What one of my clients says

“I approached Paul about coaching a year ago when I was just about to start a new big job role and I had had my confidence knocked having been made redundant in my previous role. Paul helped give me tools to assist me in dealing with high-pressure work situations, anxieties and fears, and to build confidence in myself and my abilities. Paul is a great listener and was excellent at helping me through problems. His help was incredibly useful during a really challenging year. The counselling will no doubt be invaluable in my career and life in general going forward.”

A. London December 2018

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