Dealing with Disturbing Desires: How to Prevent Harmful Actions of Sexual Offences and Taboo Sex
In today’s digital age, it’s essential to understand the wide range of sexual offences outlined in the 2003 Sexual Offences Act in the UK, as well as those in various jurisdictions worldwide.
The internet has revolutionised how people explore their sexual fantasies, making it easier for both men and women to delve into their desires and fantasies. However, this newfound accessibility can sometimes lead to individuals unintentionally committing sexual offences.
If you find yourself in a situation where you’ve been questioned, charged, or convicted of a sexual offence, it’s natural to feel isolated and abandoned. You may fear that those close to you will distance themselves due to the nature of these issues.
During such challenging times, seeking help and support is crucial. Online counseling provides an effective, completely confidential, and convenient way to discuss your concerns and fears surrounding sexual behaviours.
You don’t have to face this journey alone, I can provide an empathetic ear and practical advice and support.
If you’re worried about your sexual thoughts or fantasies, talk to me in confidence, I don’t work with anyone else and our communication will be 100% confidential.
I’m Paul Parkin – A therapist and life coach. This is why you should work with me:
I’ve helped many people who have unusual sexual thoughts understand why they have these feelings. I’ve also explained the laws about these thoughts and how they can hurt others. I’ve taught them ways to control these feelings and not act on them. It’s important for them to know that having these thoughts doesn’t make them bad as long as they don’t do anything harmful. Through our work, they’ve learned to feel better, let go of guilt and stress, and live happier lives.
What some of my recent clients have said about our work together.
‘I can’t express how grateful I am for the help I received. Before starting, I was living with the weight of my past actions, feeling lost and ashamed. Paul helped me understand why I did what I did and gave me tools to control my impulses. I learned about the consequences of my actions on others, which was eye-opening.
Through the counseling, I realised that having certain thoughts didn’t make me a bad person, as long as I didn’t act on them. It was like a heavy burden lifted off my shoulders. I no longer felt consumed by guilt, shame, or anxiety.
Today, I’m in a much better place emotionally and mentally. I’ve not only avoided repeating my mistakes but have also started building a brighter future for myself.
This counselling gave me the support and guidance I needed to move forward in life, free from the past’s weight. I can’t thank Paul enough for helping me regain control and find happiness again.‘
Bob, UK
‘Seeking help through sexual offenses counseling was a turning point in my life. I had been carrying the secret of my past actions for far too long, and it was eating me up inside. When I finally reached out to Paul, I was scared and uncertain about what lay ahead.
Paul was incredibly understanding and non-judgmental. He helped me explore the reasons behind my actions and provided me with strategies to manage my impulses. Learning about the legal consequences and the impact on others was very difficult but necessary.
Paul also taught me that having certain thoughts doesn’t define my worth as a person. It allowed me to let go of the heavy burden of guilt and shame that had been haunting me for years.
Since then, I’ve been committed to making amends and avoiding repeating my mistakes. Paul empowered me to transform my life positively.
Today, I’m living a happier and more fulfilling life, free from the anxiety and guilt that used to hold me back.
I’m immensely grateful for the support and guidance Paul offered me.‘
Sarah, USA