About Paul Parkin

Paul Parkin is an online counsellor, therapist and life coach. He is passionate about helping people reach their full potential and providing affordable online counselling to people everywhere via his counselling website Counsellors Online. Paul has worked as an online counsellor for the past 20 years and has worked in several counselling settings, including - National Society of Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC) the NHS. North East Council on Addictions (NECA) and Several telephone helplines including the Samaritans. Read other blog posts.

Look Deeper

By |2023-06-16T22:43:33+01:00December 28, 2012|Inspirational Stories|

Bad by name, bad by nature? During Nelson Mandela's 19 years imprisoned on Robben Island, one particular commanding officer was the most brutal of them all: "A few days before Badenhorst's departure I was called to the main office. General Steyn was visiting the island and wanted to know if we had any complaints. Badenhorst was there as I went [...]

Letting Love Grow

By |2023-06-16T22:43:34+01:00December 28, 2012|Inspirational Stories|

There was once a lonely girl who longed desperately for love. One day while she was walking in the woods she found two starving song birds. She took them home and put them in a small glided cage. She nurtured them with love and the birds grew strong. Every morning they greeted her with a marvelous song. The girl felt great love [...]

Love What You Can’t Change

By |2023-06-16T22:43:34+01:00December 28, 2012|Inspirational Stories|

The problem with dandelions. A man who took great pride in his lawn found himself with a large crop of dandelions. He tried every method he knew to get rid of them. Still they plagued him. Finally he wrote to the Department of Agriculture. He enumerated all the things he had tried and closed his letter with the question: "What [...]

Addicted To Those Boots

By |2023-06-16T22:43:35+01:00December 28, 2012|Inspirational Stories|

When I got sober my sponsor told me that I had to be willing to change everything about my life, everything.  So I had wore bluejeans and switched to slacks. I wore western shirts and switched to T-shirts. But the one thing I just couldn't give up was my cowboy boots. I went to my sponsor and said, "Surely I [...]

We Have A Choice

By |2023-06-16T22:43:35+01:00December 28, 2012|Inspirational Stories|

The two Wolves. A Native American grandfather was talking to his grandson about how he felt. He said, "I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart. One wolf is the vengeful, angry, violent one. The other wolf is the loving, compassionate one." The grandson asked him, "Which wolf will win the fight in your heart grandfather?" [...]

If

By |2023-06-16T22:43:36+01:00December 28, 2012|Inspirational Stories|

IF you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to [...]

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