A Safe Place: Abuse Counseling and Healing
Have you ever found yourself questioning the dynamics of your relationships? Have you experienced discomfort, fear, or a sense of helplessness in any of your interpersonal connections? It’s essential to recognise that these emotions may be indicative of an abusive relationship, and you are not alone in facing this challenge.
Abuse can manifest in various forms, from physical or emotional, to verbal or psychological. It can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. If you’re questioning whether you might be in an abusive relationship, in the past or in the present, it’s important to remember that acknowledging your situation is the first step towards healing and reclaiming your life.
You deserve to feel safe, respected, and empowered in your relationships. If you suspect you’re in an abusive situation, seeking help and support is not a sign of weakness, it’s a courageous act of self-preservation and healing. There are resources and compassionate professionals available to guide you through this journey, providing the support you need to break free from the cycle of abuse and begin the process of healing from the trauma.
In this article, we’ll explore the signs of abusive relationships, discuss the importance of seeking help, and offer guidance on finding the strength to step away from abuse towards a brighter, healthier future. Remember, you are not alone, and there is hope for a life free from the pain of abuse.
I’m Paul Parkin – A therapist and life coach. This is why you should work with me:
I’ve helped lots of people who are being abused or are survivors of abuses to feel safe, to heal and be able to trust again. I use different counseling and coaching methods to find solutions that work in the now.
Online therapy is very convenient. You can get help from your home or even your car if you need that kind of privacy. And I also offer face-to-face counselling, therapy and life coaching for clients who live in my area or can travel to my home.
What some of my recent clients have said about our work together.
‘Paul has been such a huge help to me these past few weeks. He has listened & not judged. He has guided & encouraged me & shown me a way to change the ingrained patterns of my past. Patterns shaped when I was small by abuse & rejection. I am now choosing to react differently to situations.
It is not easy but I am beginning to understand myself and others more and to value myself. The road is just beginning but Paul has really set me on the right track & I will definitely come back to use his expertise again in the future if I feel I need it. ‘Thank you’ doesn’t really cover it as a phrase!‘
Reby, UK
‘In very simple terms, working with Paul, he has saved both my marriage and myself, his ability to strip away the layers of life and the trauma which had clouded my mind and perception has produced a clear vision and a direction for my life now and for the future.
It’s a tough road to travel but a rewarding journey, Paul was there for me throughout and at my pace. Getting your own journey started is the hardest part and to this end anyone considering engaging with a counsellor, I would recommend Paul to all.
Thank you‘
Julian, USA