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Paul Parkin is a qualified, experienced Counsellor and Life Coach offering Confidential help and support to people online. Paul has several years experience in the Relationship counselling field and understands the issues affecting his clients around the world. His knowledge and understanding of Attachment and what makes people tick makes him the perfect choice for that Realationship support and advice that we all need at some point in our relationships. Research proves that counselling and Life Coaching works, so why not give it a try, after all you and your relationship are worth it. Online relationship counselling makes help even more accessable. Common Relationship Problems Relationships and friendships are constantly changing, they may include perfect moments with a partner but in a sustained Relationship there are many highs, lows and lengthy plateaus. Even in strong committed relatrionships there will be times when changes happen and you may hit rockier patches. People change and we change at diferrent speeds to our partner sometimes, this can cause frustration and a sense of not knowing the person you started out with. Relationship problems can be trigged by a multitude of issues. Sometimes major life events such as Job Loss or Illness can cause significant Personal and Relationship Stress which tests the Partnership to Breaking Point, sometimes resulting in seperation and or divorce. 
Some Relationships labour under the Pressure of one Partner suffering an Addiction or Substance Misue/Abuse problem. Often Sexual issues can create Tension and due to the nature of the subject matter, some people are reluctant to Talk things through, leading to a Breakdown in Communication. Many Relationships continue to function, albeit imperfectly, through Infidelity or Physical Abuse. 
The Stress of Managing Money or Children can slowly affect the Health of a Relationship, when you are too busy dealing with the Pressures of everyday life it is sometimes easier to simply ignore the effects on your Relationship. An unsatisfactory relationship can result in additional problems, including depression and heightened levels of stress and even low self esteem. If you think your Relationship is in trouble then you are probably right. However, many Issues and Problems can be resolved and they don't have to mean Separation or Divorce. If you still have a Connection, have been together for a long time or you have Children, you may want to try and Salvage a Relationship, rather than Walk away from your Relationship and go back to a single life. 
Whatever is concerning you, the first step is to Acknowledge the Problem exists and then to Understand the root cause of the Problem before finding the tools, Support and Guidance to help you to cope and move forward positively. Many Relationship problems have their roots in issues from Childhood, and often the Relationship with a Parent or main Caregiver can set the agenda for many future Relationships for years to come. We call these issues Attachment issues. Talking to a Qualified Counsellor with Expertise on Attachment will enable you to explore the Issues Affecting your Relationship and Help you to look at ways to Address the Underlying Issues, and could Help improve your Past Relationships too, as well as Helping you to make better Realtionship choices in the Future. Everything you share will be confidential. My relationship with my husband has gone somewhat stale, the children have left home for their own lives and we are ready to retire soon, the thought of retirement scares the life out of me, all day long with him, bored to insanity. What can I do? I feel trapped and unfulfilled. Elisabeth ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hi Elisabeth, what you have described is a very common fear, the unknown! It sounds like you have drifted from wife and mother to whatever it is your job is and the spark of your marriage has gone at this time. Retirement and the fear of it is scary and this will not be helped by having an unfulfilling relationship. I think it's time to talk to your husband about your fears for the future and also to talk to him about ways to add some sparkle back into your relationship. Talking with him will at least bring it out into the open, and a discussion can then take place. You never know he may be feeling the same, you could help each other. If you would like to talk about your relationship in confidence, then please contact me. If when you speak to your husband you both feel you need help then I can help both of you together or seperately. Good luck Elisabeth. Paul - Online counselor and life coach. |
Some of the more common relationship problems. Coping with a new baby Finding out your partner is having an affair Constant arguing You are having an affair Unsatisfactory sex life Life/Work balances A large age gap betwwen you and your partner Problems talking or communicating to your partner or feeling listened to Drifting apart The Menopause
Relationships constitute a major aspect to our lives and whilst a supportive, fulfilling relationship can enrich our lives, conversely a difficult relationship can make life a living nightmare, and make a person feel trapped. If you would like to explore your relationship with a qualified, experienced counselor, just click the link below and in a short time you will be talking to someone who can help you find a way to a better relationship experience. Online relationship counselling is confidential and easily accessable from your home or work place. Click Here to book your *Special rate introductory session so we can begin to help you and your relationships Or click here to go back to our home page.
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