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Common Relationship Problems Relationships and friendships are constantly changing, they may include perfect moments with a partner but in a sustained Relationship there are many highs, lows and lengthy plateaus. Even in strong committed relatrionships there will be times when changes happen and you may hit rockier patches. People change and we change at diferrent speeds to our partner sometimes, this can cause frustration and a sense of not knowing the person you started out with. Relationship problems can be trigged by a multitude of issues. Sometimes major life events such as Job Loss or Illness can cause significant Personal and Relationship Stress which tests the Partnership to Breaking Point, sometimes resulting in seperation and or divorce.  Need to Talk - Online Counselling is Secure Some Relationships labour under the Pressure of one Partner suffering an Addiction or Substance Misue/Abuse problem. Often Sexual issues can create Tension and due to the nature of the subject matter, some people are reluctant to Talk things through, leading to a Breakdown in Communication. Many Relationships continue to function, albeit imperfectly, through Infidelity or Physical Abuse.  Relationship Counselling - Need to talk? The Stress of Managing Money or Children can slowly affect the Health of a Relationship, when you are too busy dealing with the Pressures of everyday life it is sometimes easier to simply ignore the effects on your Relationship. An unsatisfactory relationship can result in additional problems, including depression and heightened levels of stress and even low self esteem. If you think your Relationship is in trouble then you are probably right. However, many Issues and Problems can be resolved and they don't have to mean Separation or Divorce. If you still have a Connection, have been together for a long time or you have Children, you may want to try and Salvage a Relationship, rather than Walk away from your Relationship and go back to a single life.  Broken Heart - Relationship Counselling Whatever is concerning you, the first step is to Acknowledge the Problem exists and then to Understand the root cause of the Problem before finding the tools, Support and Guidance to help you to cope and move forward positively. Many Relationship problems have their roots in issues from Childhood, and often the Relationship with a Parent or main Caregiver can set the agenda for many future Relationships for years to come. We call these issues Attachment issues. Talking to a Qualified Counsellor with Expertise on Attachment will enable you to explore the Issues Affecting your Relationship and Help you to look at ways to Address the Underlying Issues, and could Help improve your Past Relationships too, as well as Helping you to make better Realtionship choices in the Future. Everything you share will be confidential. Hi online counselor, My relationship with my husband is entirely based on sex and fantasy. He demands sex several times a day and there is very little love or affection. When he has sex with me he just treats me like an object in bed. He has problems maintaining an erection and becomes frustrated and is verbally abusive to me too. I feel so very sad and abused by him yet I love him so much. Please post this so I can get your response. I need help NOW. Ang
Hi Ang, What you have described is a very sad read indeed, I am sorry you are feeleng this way. There are some things you can try. Have you talked to your husband re more sensitive love making? maybe you will have to set the scene as it sounds like his own issues, possibly ED. (Erectile Dysfunction) are making him go for a more aggressive kind of sex. You can learn more about Men's issues and ED from my page http://www.counsellors-online.co.uk/mens-health-issues.html The verbal abuse you are enduring may result in you feeling negative about your self and your BF, so it is very important to start talking. This kind of sex has a place and is fine if there is love surrounding it and agreeable to both parties, however it sounds like this is making you very sad indeed. If you would like to talk about your relationship in confidence, then please contact me. If when you speak to your BF and you both feel you need help then I can help both of you together or seperately. Good luck. Paul Parkin - Online counsellor and online life coach. http://www.counsellors-online.co.uk |
Some of the more common relationship problems. Coping with a new baby Finding out your partner is having an affair Constant arguing You are having an affair Unsatisfactory sex life Life/Work balances A large age gap betwwen you and your partner Problems talking or communicating to your partner or feeling listened to Drifting apart The Menopause
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